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God, Us and Family: Balancing Romance in Busy Parenting Seasons
Ever felt like ships passing in the night with your spouse while raising little ones? You're not alone. This heartfelt episode dives into the sacred balancing act between nurturing your marriage and embracing the beautiful chaos of parenthood.
Renee shares personal insights as both a relationship expert and mother to an energetic six-year-old. She offers practical wisdom for couples drowning in school drop-offs, endless snacks, and bedtime routines who desperately want to maintain their connection. Drawing from Genesis 2:24, she reminds us that God designed marriage as a covenant that evolves—not disappears—when children arrive.
The beauty lies in the simplicity of her advice: connection happens in the margins. Those five minutes of undistracted conversation after the kids are asleep, the quick embrace in the kitchen, or the vulnerable check-in during household chores—these seemingly small moments create the foundation for lasting intimacy. "The goal isn't to be perfect," Renee emphasizes, "it's to be present." She explores how protecting time for your relationship isn't selfish; it's actually a profound gift to your entire family.
Whether you're in a season where connection comes easily or feeling completely disconnected, this episode offers grace-filled encouragement. Remember that your love story matters, and as Ecclesiastes reminds us, "a cord of three strands is not easily broken." Next week, discover why fun might be the secret ingredient your marriage needs most! Share this episode with a fellow parent and follow @1TrueMatch on Instagram or Facebook for more relationship wisdom grounded in faith.
Hi, I'm Renee Richel, the founder and president of 1 True Match. I'm here to help you find and cultivate the love of your life. For over a decade, I've dedicated my life to the importance, purpose and dynamic of human relationships. My team and I are disciplined by faith, love and integrity to help our clients find the quality relationship they've always dreamt of. Each week, I will be sharing the tools and tips I've learned that have rooted my success as a matchmaker with other leaders around the world.
Renee Richel:Hello, loves, welcome back. I hope you have had an incredible week and cannot wait to dive into today's topic about God, us and family Balancing romance in busy parenting seasons. So let's be real for a second. Parenting is beautiful, rewarding, holy work, but it can also feel like a full-time, all-consuming job. And when you're doing that alongside trying to nurture a relationship, phew, it's a lot.
Renee Richel:Today's episode is all about balancing marriage and parenthood, staying connected when the kids take up most of your time. As a mother to a very energetic, intelligent, busy six-year-old little girl, I get it. Our days are full of school drop-offs, snacks, playtime, homework, bath time and by the end of the day, you're lucky if you have 10 minutes to still sit down, go to the bathroom, breathe, let alone invest in quality connection. But here's what I've learned and what I want to encourage you with today Love means intention to grow and your relationship deserves just as much care and attention as your parenting journey. Marriage is a covenant. Let's go back to what God designed In Genesis 2:24,. It says therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. God never meant for your relationship to disappear when the kids arrived, he meant for it to evolve with more grace, more laughter and more love. You don't have to lose each other in the process of raising your little blessings. I know it sounds easier than done, but I promise when the smallest intentional moments can change the tone of your whole day. Whether it's a quick morning hug in the kitchen, a flirty text in the afternoon or five minutes after bedtime to check in with your spouse, those little moments matter. If you can do a regular weekly date night, amazing. But if not, create connection in the margins During dishes on a walk while folding laundry or weekly couch talk is perfect ways to set aside just an hour of intentional time together to connect. The goal isn't to be perfect, it's to be present.
Renee Richel:So many couples get stuck in the rhythm of running the household, but when was the last time you asked how are you really doing? Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can offer your partner is your full attention, undistracted, even if only for a few minutes. And don't forget to share how you're doing too. Vulnerability builds intimacy and it reminds both of you that you're on the same team. You biblically loving your spouse. Serving, forgiving, laughing, praying, talking through hard things teaches your children more than any Sunday school lesson ever could.
Renee Richel:So never feel guilty about protecting time for your relationship. It's a gift to your family, not a distraction from it. Some weeks it'll click, others you'll feel like your two ships passing in the night. That's okay. God's grace fills the gaps. Just keep showing up for each other. Keep fighting for connection. Keep inviting him into the middle of your love story.
Renee Richel:In Ecclesiastes 4:12, it says a cord of three strands is not easily broken you, your partner and the Lord. Stronger together. So in conclusion, let me pray over you today, father. Thank you for every heart listening right now. Strengthen the bond of love between parents who are also partners. Give them eyes to see each other again, even in the busyness. Bring laughter back into their homes and peace into their hearts. Remind them that they are not alone. You are with them, guiding, restoring and renewing In Jesus' name. Amen.
Renee Richel:Today's episode encouraged you. Name Amen. Today's episode encouraged you. Would you share it with a friend today or send it to somebody who's walking through the same season? You can find more encouraging and real talk over on our Instagram @1 True Match. And don't forget your love story matters. Your connection is worth fighting for, and even in the chaos, god is writing something beautiful. Until next time, stay rooted in love and anchored in Christ. Next week we're going to talk about why fun is the secret ingredient in marriage. I hope you have a fabulous week and cannot wait for our next chat. God bless.
Renee Richel:It's been another great talk on this episode of 1 True Talks by Renee Richel. I look forward to our next chat. Please write in your questions and comments so I can be sure to talk about whatever it is you want to discuss in our next upcoming episode. Lots of Love, God Bless. XOXO.